An Apology to Those Whom I’ve Identified Differently from the Difference They Prefer

Dear Readers,

To any of you with whom I’ve been corresponding and whom I’ve spoken of as a different gender/orientation than they prefer, this is my sincere apology. I have a particular friend to thank for recently acquainting me with the correct form(s) of address and reference, and because it’s a recent lesson and I’ve been exhausted lately, I have probably cis-identified or mis-identified some of you who’ve made changes in your lives.

Now, as of this morning, I’ve had a good night’s sleep and some coffee (wonderful clarifier for the bewildered and tired!), and I think I may be back on the track of correct reference. Just to clarify myself for you, I am she/her, and straight. I hark back to the days when so many marvelous forms of notation for allowing people to be their true selves did not exist, and even though I approve of the differences in notation and reference for helping people to maintain their lives and selves as they would wish, I sometimes slip up when using the forms myself.

So, ’nuff said, I hope. Write in if you have anything you would like to discuss or mention further, or feel that others using my site should know, about you or the world of usage in general. Blessings and gratitudes, Shadowoperator (Victoria Leigh Bennett)


Filed under Other than literary days....

2 responses to “An Apology to Those Whom I’ve Identified Differently from the Difference They Prefer

  1. Admirable of you to try and get this right. I can barely remember it all myself and once had to ask a straight friend about “cisgender.” I had it confused with cislunar or something.
    Sounds like you need a stressbuster after a busy week! This is sweet and there is a kitty. Watch how a young violinist solves the problem of how to practice when her kitten cries every time she puts it down:

    Cheers! B

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